Reports say she woke up in her coffin and knocked on the lid, when it was open, relatives were stunned to find her alive and gasping for breath.

"I lifted up the coffin, and her heart was pounding, and her left hand was hitting the coffin… We called 911 to bring her here to the hospital," her son Gilberto Barbera said in a video posted on social media.

However, after spending seven days in ICU she died. Read more

The pastor at the Baptist Church is actually called Chris.

Curate Ned Lunn said Chris did indeed have to get up for a sunrise service at 6:30 am on Easter Sunday because "his predecessor didn't manage to get up for the service last year."Read more

One evening at a convent of the order, the superior greeted a large group of nuns, saying what a pleasure it was to be with them for the visitation (shisatsu).

I thought I had turned his words into Japanese, but the shocked looks on the faces of the audience told me something was amiss.

I hit my mental rewind button, and then asked the nuns, "Did I say the superior is here to commit suicide (jisatsu)?"

Their solemn nods turned into relieved laughter when I explained my mistake.

Everyone who uses a language other than his or her native tongue - intercultural business people, migrants, refugees, missionaries - or hears such people speak has similar tales to tell.

Often, the stories are amusing. Sometimes they are frustrating. On occasion, they may even be tragic.

Almost always, they are embarrassing to the speaker.

Pope Francis's slip

There have been news reports that Pope Francis committed such a gaffe during a Sunday talk to a crowd gathered outside St Peter's Basilica for his blessing.

Like me at the convent, he mispronounced a consonant, and may have inadvertently uttered a vulgarism. Like vulgarisms in any language, direct translation makes no sense, but the reports indicate that it was the Italian equivalent of using an English word that once earned me a mouthful of soap from my mother.

We can wonder whether the Spanish-speaking pope merely mixed up sounds, or if the word he actually said is, in fact, a part of his Italian vocabulary.

And if it is, does he know the vulgar connotations of it that go beyond the literal meaning?

Should Vatican reporters keep an eye open for a cardinal heading toward the pope's residence with a big bar of soap? Should they investigate whether or not Regina Bergoglio ever washed out her son Jorge's mouth?

The Pope like us

Each day, we see how like the rest of us Pope Francis is. Of course, his predecessors all the way back to Peter were like the rest of us, too, but too often they or others tried to hide that fact.

As we mark the first anniversary of Francis' election, he continues to fascinate Catholics and non-Catholics alike with his normalcy. No longer hiding papal normalcy may finally break down one of the most insidious problems in the Church, clericalism.

Clericalism, the attitude that clergy are special, deserving of special treatment and not subject to the human, civil, social and even etiquette norms that others must obey, lies behind the sex abuse scandals that have brought the Church's leaders into deserved disrepute.

It is clericalism that allows an archbishop whose archdiocese includes one of the most blighted cities in the United States to build at archdiocesan expense a more-than-$500,000 addition that will add an indoor second swimming pool and a hot tub to his already comfortable retirement home.

Clergy can be weak

These and other sins have alerted people to the fact that the clergy can be weak.

Even more, the arrogance of leaders who have enabled abuse, used the contributions of Catholics for their own purposes and closed parishes or institutions without consulting the people whose lives would be affected have made Catholics increasingly unwilling to give the benefit of doubt to professional churchmen.

The presumption that clergy are extraordinary men whose generous sacrifices deserve special thanks and treatment has been dealt a probably fatal self-inflicted wound.

That is good news for the Church. Now that the pope has made a gaffe such as any of us could make, people should realise that all their clergy are merely human - frail, and even slightly ridiculous - like all of us.

The tragic scandal of sexual abuse has shown that priests can perpetrate evil, but too many people think superhuman or super sinner are the only categories for viewing them.

In fact, clergy have "bad hair days" just like anyone else.

They get tired and upset. They carry emotional baggage. Clericalism (on the part of both clergy and laity) forgets or refuses to recognise those facts.

The demise of clericalism

The demise of clericalism will have several good results.

The first, and most important, is that those clerics who delight in being pampered and treated like lapdogs or minor nobility will have to grow up and earn their reputations through service rather than status. And they will be held to the same standards of responsibility as any other adults.

One group that will joyfully benefit from the demolition of clericalism will be the large number of clergy who hate what clericalism does to themselves.

When it becomes commonly accepted that bishops and priests use toilet paper at the same rate as others, that will free clergy from having to live up to superhuman expectations.

It will free them to be as normal in ministry as Pope Francis. His 'oops' moment may be the most important thing he said that day.

Fr William Grimm is publisher of ucanews.com, based in Tokyo.

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As I was thinking about this, I found myself almost immediately coming up with a list of the opposite.

I could readily come up with a list of traits that contributed to unsuccessful youth ministries.

I call these Fatal Flaws and I identified five of them. I wanted to share them with you to see what you think. I'm curious what you would add.

Fatal Flaw #1: Agenda Is Greater Than Relationship

I'm convinced that the relationships we make with students have to be seen as more than the vehicle for accomplishing our agenda.

I believe that the Christ-centreed relationships we make with students are just as important as the knowledge of God they gain through our ministries. Continue reading.

Andy Blanks is the co-founder of youthministry360, a ministry committed to equipping youth workers through resources, training, community, and networking. He lives in Birmingham, Alabama in the USA.

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