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Don’t pile pressure on women to look ‘authentic’ just after they have given birth.
How disappointing that some people criticised Kate Middleton for looking “unrealistic” when she emerged, with Prince William and new baby, Louis Arthur Charles, for the press photocall.
It seems that some people wouldn’t have been satisfied unless Middleton had come staggering out, like a besmocked crab, with a massive distended “Mr Greedy” stomach, shooting newly arrived milk through her Jenny Packham dress at aghast reporters.
This, for some, is postpartum reality.
The catch is that only one reality is allowed.
Not that authenticity is a bad thing.
It certainly beats watching a new celebrity mum embark on some crazed public quest to stuff herself back into her pre-pregnancy jeans, proving… what exactly? That she’s still sexually viable?
To these women, I’d say, sisters, if you can’t spare us, at least spare yourselves.
Certainly, it seems to be the grimmest of fools’ errands to try to put a sepia glow or flattering filter on the hard graft of getting another human being safely out.
However, not every postpartum experience is the same.
After both my babies, I was slim, with a fairly normal-looking stomach – it would have been hard to tell that I’d just given birth.
The reason for this didn’t lie in earnest yoga sessions, but because both my babies were early and small. In fact, my second daughter was extremely early and horribly small… and sick.
The point is that, in the unlikely event of my being dragged out for a press photocall, for my non-existent adoring public, my body might have risked being denounced as “unrealistic”. When, in truth… Continue reading
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